Yep, I said it. The Christmas white lie that we all engage in every single year. Your dad gives you those kewl pair of Dunlop Leather Golf Shoes that you’ve been dreaming about all year long. Mom on the other hand decides that a Crochet Muffler Scarf would go great with your eyes. What do you say when opening those presents right in front of them…. hmmm? Well, I’ll give it a guess.
Lie:
“Wow dad! These are great. These will go perfectly with my plaid golf pants. I can’t wait to show these to the guys.”
Truth (thought):
“I’m burning these and burrying the ashes as soon as I get home.”
Lie:
“Mom, you shouldn’t have. I’m glad you picked a color that goes well with everything I wear. Pink has always been my favorite color. Thank you mom.”
Truth (thought):
“How could you mom. I’m a 28 year old man for God sakes! You could of picked any color but pink! Pink, pink, pink!!! Ahhhh!”
Things don’t have to be that way. Receive a bad gift? Pass it on to the next deserving person. Hell, there’s even a site dedicated to it. The best part of the whole site is their Regifting 101 page.
If you are thinking about regifting this holiday season, ask yourself the following questions:
Is the gift regiftable? Never regift handmade or one-of-a-kind items. Signed books and monogrammed items are off-limits. Do you have to be told not to regift free promotional items? Some gifts that are good candidates for regifting include good (unopened!) bottles of wine, new household items and inexpensive jewelry.
How is the condition? Only new, unopened gifts in good condition should be considered for regifting. Never give partially used gift cards. Don�t give items that you have owned for a long time. A general rule of thumb: if you have to dust it off, it is not regiftable.
Is this going to work? Successful regifters use common sense. If you are going to regift, be sure you know who gave you the item, so you don�t return something to the original giver. Only regift items to people who are not likely to see the original giver.
Do you have good intentions? Don�t just give a gift to give a gift. Be sure that the recipient will appreciate the item. Remember, if you feel that an item is undesirable, the recipient probably will too. If you are regifting simply because you ran out of time, gift cards are simple to obtain and always well received.
How does it look? When it comes to gift-giving, go for show! While gift bags in good condition can be reused, wrapping paper is a one-time thing. Always spring for a new card or gift tag.
Can you handle it? If you don�t plan to announce the gift as a regift, ask yourself if you can keep the secret. Never feel guilty about regifting once you�ve done it.
Have you considered your options? An unwanted gift could be a welcome donation to a charitable organization. It is also an option to suck it up and keep an unwanted gift�after all, it was a gift.
Seriously some good information here if Santa doesn’t bring you what you really want this year. I’m bookmarking this one….